My wife tries to talk my 10 year old into playing basketball every year. His response is "I AM A WRESTLER". We do video his matches and seldom watch them unless he wants to. "HE" says that all he wants to do is wrestle in the Metro Classic when he can. So he does have a goal.
Basketball???? Have you tried seeing a couples councilor? cause WOW Sorry dude.
And I always make the comment it only matters in high school. Mainly because if your a seven time kids state champ, once you hit high school they only call you freshman until you prove otherwise. And for me its a way to relax my kid and get him to focus on the BIG picture. And at this point in Jonny's career I have to reel him in about his seriousness we support try not to push and hope for the best but for the most point hes way harder on himself than anyone else is. Just like I have always said every tournament is just practice for State,Tulsa Etc. it helps him move on and removes pressure. And it helps if he gets his hinny whipped.