I agree to a certain point with BHampton ,but i also have 2 sons that wrestle and my one 8yr old will come of the mat upset if he loses and we always tell him he did great, but on the other hand my 10yr old comes off the mat and if he lost his match, its like get out of his way, and i try and try to teach him that its fine to lose and everyone loses. But he is just in a rage, and me or his father never yell at him for a lost...So you really cant say that the way a kid comes off the mat reflects on his parents, not true at all in my case.....Amiee
