first off mike im sorry for what u and your son has gone through and unfortunately rumors are flying around pretty heavily. so much that my 10 yr. old son heard some of it and was little confused as he should be.by the way my son was fortunate enough to have met and wrestled with your son this past summer and looks up to him very much and i wish people would be more thoughtful and thank about what they say about those subjects before opening their mouths. this should be dropped for the remainder of the season and not brought up on this forum or any of the others