For the wrestlers who can't remember what they did at practice the night before, maybe they are to young for wrestling right now. Maybe the coaches aren't giving them the individual attention that IS needed in every club. Maybe they just don't enjoy it. There are any number of reasons they don't remember what they did. You have to figure out if they are wrestling because THEY want to or YOU want them to. Hopefully it is their choice.
Let's all just enjoy the season, it will be over before we know it.
Actually our coaches do a wonderful job and have plenty of time for one on one...
...and if you must know, often my kids talk ME into going to practice when I would rather stay home.
Do THEY want a big show or do YOU???