If your kid lost to the kid at the end of the year he still would not be autistic. The kid a least tried. Having 3 kids and a grandson that was one of my greatest fears. I DEEPLY ADMIRE THESE PARENTS who are getting their kids involved inspite of the issue. You should just feel luckly you are not in the same position. THINK ABOUT IT. You are mad because things were not fair. The parents of this kid, when they what your kid and all the others, are reminded everyday that life is not fair. AT 6 AND UNDER it is about learning, participation and having fun. If he needed an advantage SO WHAT. AND, you will figure out in a few years, that the team running the tournament sets the rules, maybe not fair. But whoever promised life was fair. The parents of the kid your son was to wrestle have figured that out at least 6 years ago. Tomorrow is Sunday, a good time to think about that.