My daughter wrestled a few years ago...she was 6/U. Everytime she stepped on the mat, she cried...until the match started, then she cried if she was on the bottom...until she reversed it...but she wanted to keep wrestling...she cried her way through many wins....she was either crying or smiling...we didn't know what to do...we finally told her she was finished...it broke my heart to see her cry. She is now 10 and wants to wrestle again...we said NO WAY!!!