we have one of those kids to. he is my son. i was mad at his match. I didnt talk to him until later. I just explained to him you have to be a good loser to be a good winner. I explained your not going to win every match. He told me he was crying because he was losing. I told him when your losing the only way to win is to move and think about what your going to do to score the next point. Then you move on from there. You cannot lay there and cry and expect to score any points. I also told him dont worry about the winning and losing just worry about moving at all times and never give up. Winning and losing takes its place at that point.
