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A little guilt is a good thing. It keeps things in check. I have 5 kids - one's married, 2 kids and a life of his own. My two daughter's love going to their littlest brother's wrestling tournaments - they won't miss them. My middle (step)son is big into horses and during the summer competes at a horse show every weekend. I love horses too - there are 5 hay burners outside my back door right now- but I hate waiting all day and most of the night to watch him ride. (My husband feels the same way about wrestling). Daughters are ruthless creatures (LOL) they will guilt you into lots of things. After state, spend a little one on one time with her - that's what she really wants.
