What parent or coach would spend extra time with their child to help them be better or more successful at something they love to do? Whether it be sports, school, or a hobby, I am so thankful I have the opportunity to spend that extra time with my son. If you see the negatives in this then its time to look in the mirror. Maybe you aren't doing it right. Nope, no maybe, if you see extra time to help someone as a negative then you are the wrong person to help people.