Wayne Joint is one of the best i've seen at 52#'s, Ayden Dolt from Lawson is as tough as they come at 45#'s. Last year was our first year and my son was 5, it was his idea to wrestle, at first we went to practice the 2 nights a week, then it became a battle to get him to go, and we started to do once a week or not at all. This year he has taken a 180, loves to practice at home and go to the club practices. I don't push him, it is his option to practice or how many tournaments he wants to wrestle in.