Here's another situation I'm asking abot. First read, then speak

( It is the coaches job to ask the ref, which he did, it is also my job. The match before my sons the same ref let a kid tap out when he was getting pinned and re-started the match.)

This is from a parent at a tournament as you can tell about a call. I thought I read in my rule book, that if a kid taps out during a fall, he's actually lost the match. Not a restart. If I'm wrong good, but you tell and what paragraph please.