Well we can debate this forever but until we have several million dollars to pay for the start-up of both a men's wrestling and a women's softball team, none of it matters. Remember, the schools are going to expect the proponents of a wrestling program to carry the woman's sport financially as well, since it won't generate revenue either.
Also, never think "balance" will satisfy Title IX requirements.
When talking about Title IX and it's requirements you have to leave logical thinking by the wayside.
Why is KSU no longer hosting that wrestling camp? I think I know!
