Stick to your guns. There should have been no reason for that behavior. Our kids wrestle for a town 25 minutes away from us that are considered to be our rivals. When it came down to the facts, they had the better club and coaches. My kids respected their coach more than the one in hometown. Therefore we drive there 3 nights a week and they have grown leaps and bounds because of it. I am glad that noone has tried to use that same arguement on us.