Wow! So, getting kicked out of a tournament isn't the real punishment? But the following week suspension is the real consequence? And since the kid is not placing at this tournament you are in favor of suspending him the entire next season so he understands exactly what he did. And to be clear, what he did is often times a judgement call that YOU made. Can range from unsportsman for one ref, unnecessary roughness to another, FM to you. And you got your muscle (teeth) I believe you called it so use it. Glad I'm not your kid.