Here in my home we look at it difrantly. It is my sons job to work as hard as he can. Some days suck,some days are great. I have explained to him what will come from the hard work. Like he will never submit to a bully at any time.He will get collage A scholarship. {if he put in enough work} When some one trys to hurt any of his family he can protect them. Now that my little girl has started to wrestle,she wants to tough as she can be.