Lets say I am glade my son was taken down and let up many many times over. It taught him how to cope with the stress of having no control. It also taught him how to keep his composer in stressful times and push though it.With out having some boys do this to him he would never be to the level he is today.
As for him taking people down and letting them go. Lets say he has to be real mad or working on some thing.He will now some times to work a set up.

Charles Bradford