I agree with everything you guys have said. Actually guilty of some of these parent/coach actions. Not proud of it, but work everyday to love him and encourage no matter what. My son hasn't had huge Folkstyle success, but its proved very useful in Freestyle and Greco. I'm blessed that he still enjoys the sport enough to wrestle into the spring and summer.
My neighbor is a past State champ, and his only advice for me is to make sure he wrestles in high school and he has fun. I totally agree, and think about that when he takes a beat to an inferior opponent. Love him, encourage him and make sure its fun.
