Yep you hear a lot of things and heck I don't blame them. I tried everything I could to get mine seeded to and I know it is their job to do the best they can for their kids. For as tough a meeting as ours is in the Bobcat the coaches do a wonderful job. They have their information in order and they do a great job in doing the best for their kids and still getting along. Its all parrt of the game lol and a great part of it I enjoy it too.