I understand what you are saying and honestly you are right in everything you say, but reality is it is very painful to end your wrestling career on a close match. To this day which is alot of years later I feel the pain everytime I watch wrestling. In a match I felt I won but the official decided otherwise. It is true the wrestlers need to wrestle and not let the official take it away from him but when you wrestle the best match you can and something happens that isn't right in your eyes it is every hard to let go.
So today I coach and preach the same things you are saying. I try my best to be positive about everyone and to let everyone have the benefit.
All I can say for those dealing with it is to understand everything happens for a reason and sometimes it is not possible to understand. Live the best life you can and let God lead your way.
