I might suggest utilizing this site to do a poll. Keep the question simple..."Does your club have any 8 and under kids over the 125# limit." Make it a yes/no answer and address it to club directors only. It would be unscientific and may not include everyone, but it would be a start. A couple of you could also exchange information and put together a more scientific survey of Kansas Clubs, beginning with your personal knowledge. If the numbers warrant a change, I'm think you could get it implemented. However, without the evidence or data to back up your claim I do not think anything would get done. Your cause is just. With a little work you could make a positive impact. Good Luck.
