For your info, my son told me that he was hurt. It is my resposibility first as a parent to make sure that the well being of my son is first. If my son was truely hurt like he said (which he wasn't and he was deciplined for lying) it is up to me as a parent to make sure he is ok. If my son was truely not okay then the HE_ _ with wrestling. My son's health is number one for me, and if that is not the case for you I would seriously judge your ability as a parent.