This is to all the coaches/assitant coaches/parents etc.:
As a first year official, I have had a "trial by fire" introduction to the world of wrestling officiating. Having coached several years, I knew making the transition to official would be an adjustment. What I didn't know is how much of an adjustment it would be. I have learned that there are definitely "grey areas" when it comes to many different rulings and that learning the intricacies of officiating is much more a art form than just knowing the rule book and calling things black and white (even though we try to do so as much as possible). With all of the above said - I have some requests for coaches and spectators.
1. Please respect the fact that it isn't an easy job and that many of us - especially the newer ones, are still learning.
2. Please understand that it is in no way my intention (and I have to assume) anyone elses intention to "blow" calls or make mistakes - and especially is it not my intention to get anyone hurt or call something unfairly.
3. Please use a little discretion when calling out officials. In my young career - I have already been blasted by several coaches (JV level) who have taken it upon themselves to reem me in a way that is extremely disrespectful.
4. Please make sure that you are up to date on the rule book and have a very clear understanding of exactly what the rules state before you question an officials call.
5. Finally, as I understand, officials are sometimes hard to come by - and really good officials are few and far between. My guess (at this point) is that it is hard to recruit folks into a field where they can expect to be belittled and ridiculed as well as called out in a very public forum consistently. I think that for the good of the sport - and to allow officials to develop the qualities neccessary to be very good - folks need to understand that we are human beings that are required to make split second decisions under a great deal of pressure while watching out for numerous things in a fast paced action sport. Coaches/Spectators who give little thought to this as they wait until we make a mistake to blast us are undoubtedly giving little thought to all of the above.
*As a side note - I don't ever see coaches making any comments when an official has called a good match. Granted it is our job - but it seems that just waiting to pounce on official when he makes a mistake is not only not a very good example for the kids but also a good way to detour would be "good" officials from wanting to go out there and do a job that without which - this great sport would not be.
**As a second side note - I would like to commend some of the coaches that I have worked with at recent tournaments who have been coaching their kids to shake the hands of the official after a match - win or lose - great sportsmanship and definitely a "good call"!
Any comments would be most appreciated.
